Five Things I Wish I Had Known Ten Years Ago

Like the old saying goes, “Hindsight is 20/20”. Here are 5 things I wish someone had told me 10 years ago: Success is an inside job. No matter how you define success, it starts with your mindset.  Why?  Because the most insidious limitations are the ones we put on ourselves.  The way you view the world…

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The New Normal

Change is hard. For 14 years, on the first day of school, I’ve taken pictures of my sons smiling (and not so smiling) on the front porch, after a big breakfast. It was our annual ritual before hopping in the car to drive to school. The picture to the left is from 2007. Fast forward…

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The Road to Recovery, One Year Later

I feel different today than I did a year ago. It's not just that I'm a year older.  I'm a decade wiser.  Unfortunately, the price of wisdom is often a painful life experience.  In my case, it was hitting burn out last summer.  My biggest concern at the start of this year was this: After…

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Staying Sane in an Insane World

It has been over six months since I largely checked out of the working world to recharge and "fill up the well".  I'm back in the saddle, but there's no guarantee that I won't go down the same path of burn out again, given my previous M.O.  Photo by tj scenes My friend, Richard, who…

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Are You Fulfilling Your Destiny?

While journaling recently, I wrote the following question:  "Have I fulfilled my destiny?"  Have I met the promise of what others saw in me at an early age? For many, family and teachers are the first ones to see our talent, encourage us and see who we could become in the future–for example, a fine…

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