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A Marriage Made in Chinatown

This is fifth in a series of posts about being in hedgehog mode, as I write a book about my ancestors. In this post, I provide a glimpse of what I've been working on for the last year, including writing about my mother's immigration journey in 1947....
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Felt Like I Fell Way Down

  This is fourth in a series of posts about being in hedgehog mode(opens in new tab), as I write a book about my ancestors. In this post, I provide a glimpse of what I've been working on for the last...
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Gifts from Being in Hedgehog Mode

This is third in a series of posts about being in hedgehog mode, as I write a book about my ancestors.  In my second post, I wrote about the biggest delight so far. In this post, I continue with unexpected gifts of the journey...
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I Didn’t Expect This

In my  last post, I wrote about being in hedgehog mode. Fully immersed in writing a book about my ancestors, some of whom I never met and some I knew for decades, the process keeps surprising me. There are the...
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I’m in Hedgehog Mode

I've been writing a book about my ancestors. This week, I updated my writing coach: I'm not sure if I'm on track to finish a first draft by the end of the year. It almost doesn't matter, as the parts...
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Part 3: Our Great and Terrible World

The Universe gives me exactly what I need, when I need it, and no sooner. I love that saying (which I made up many years ago) because it rings so true. Sort of my version of the "teacher appears when...
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Part 2: Our Great and Terrible World

There are days when I dread finding out what's happening in the world. When the news of the day can feel so despairing, I try to remember this: Most people want to be a force for good. Achieving this can be difficult,...
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Our Great and Terrible World

I try to take a long walk most days, even when the weather is inhospitable. As it was this week in Iowa, with windchill below zero. Sometimes on my walk, I observe what there is to see--a fruit tree which...
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When Your Heart is Breaking…

Last month, I found out that a friend who lives in another state had been battling cancer for a year, and was in hospice. Two days ago, Robin died, leaving behind a devoted husband and a millennial daughter. Grief is...
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Love Grove

I am part of a love grove. No, that's not a new type of psychedelic. Nor is it a New Age thing. A love grove is a healthy community, where members are committed to a path of healing and deeply...